QUIZ: Is He Pulling Away?

QUIZ: IS HE PULLING AWAY?

Hi. I'm Lachlan Brown from Hack Spirit.

Is your man REALLY pulling away... or are you misreading the situation? Take my new quiz to find out exactly where you stand with your man.

In this quiz, I'm going to give you a real and honest answer to the most common question I get asked:

"Is my man pulling away?"

Whether you're...

Just starting out with him
In a committed relationship
Married

... It's painful when the connection you have with your man starts to disappear.

However, some signs are misleading. It could be that deep down he’s committed to your relationship, and you're just misreading some of his behavior.

What you need real and honest advice.

Answer a few simple quesitons below to find out the answer.

What type of relationship do you have?

It's early days

We're in a committed relationship

I'm married

Does he open up to you?

Yes, he opens up to me. We have a deep emotional connection.

Sort of, but not as much as I'd like.

He used to, but not anymore.

No, he never does. He's an emotionally unavailable man.

Is he still affectionate with you?

Yes! He can’t keep his hands off me.

He can be when he feels like it.

Only if I initiate it.

He’s rarely affectionate with me.

How's your sex life?

Fantastic. That's definitely not the problem.

Okay. We still have some chemistry in bed.

We're hardly intimate anymore. It's frustrating.

We haven't slept together yet.

Is there a lot of tension in your relationship?

Not that I’ve noticed.

Sometimes, especially if we’ve had an argument.

The tension between us has increased recently.

Yes - you can cut the tension with a knife.

Does he go out of his way to do things for you?

Yes, he’s very considerate towards me.

He will if I ask him to.

Only when he feels like it.

He rarely/never does things for me.

Is he romantic with you?

Yes. He still does little things that warm my heart.

Sometimes he’ll do something to put a smile on my face.

It’s been a while since he’s done anything romantic.

No. He’s stopped doing any of that stuff.

If he told you he wanted to break up, would you be surprised?

Yes, I would be surprised.

Sort of. I’d be a bit surprised but I guess it would've been on the cards for a while now.

No, I’ve seen it coming.

Why do you think he could be pulling away?

I don’t know. From my perspective, the relationship has been going great!

He’s been acting weird lately. But I can’t put my finger on what’s wrong.

He seems unhappy being in a relationship with me.

I have no idea. That’s why I’m taking this quiz!

What's your gut instinct?

We’re meant to me together (and he knows that too).

I don’t know. I’m confused!

He’s pulling away.

Is your husband still affectionate with you?

Yeah - he can’t keep his hands off me!

He can be when he feels like it.

Only if I initiate it.

He’s rarely affectionate with me.

How often does your husband tell you he loves you?

All the time.

Most days.

On occasion but not often.

It's been a long time since he told me he loves me.

How would you describe your sex life?

We both make an effort to keep our sex life healthy.

He wants to have sex more often but life gets in the way.

I want to have sex more often but life gets in the way.

Sex? What's that?

Is there a lot of tension between you and your husband?

Not that I’ve noticed.

Sometimes, especially after we’ve had an argument.

The tension between us has noticeably increased recently.

Yes - you can cut the tension with a knife.

Does he open up to you?

Yes, he opens up to me. We still have a deep emotional connection.

Sort of, but not as much as I'd like.

He used to, but not anymore.

No, he never does. He's an emotionally unavailable man.

Does your husband go out of his way to do things for you?

Yes, he’s very considerate towards me.

He will if I ask him to.

Only when he feels like it.

He rarely/never does things for me.

Is he evasive about where he is or who he is with?

No, not really.

Yes, he seems to be hiding something.

What does your gut feeling say about your husband’s feelings (a tough question but be honest with yourself)?

He still loves me.

I feel like he still loves me...most of the time.

I have no idea what he feels anymore.

My gut tells me his feelings have changed.

How often does he talk to you?

Often. We still speak a lot.

Kind of often.

We speak less than we used to.

He hasn’t been in touch for a while.

Does he flirt with other women?

Yes. Right in front of me too.

He’s pretty friendly with other women.

No. At least not in front of me.

No, he doesn’t.

Is he still affectionate with you?

Yes! He can’t keep his hands off me.

He can be when he’s in the mood.

If I initiate it, he’ll reciprocate.

He’s rarely affectionate with me.

Does he open up to you?

Yes, he opens up to me.

Sort of, but not as much as I’d like.

He used to, but not anymore.

No, he never does. He’s emotionally unavailable.

Does he go out of his way to do things for you?

Yes, he’s very considerate towards me.

He will if I ask him to.

Only when he feels like it.

He rarely/never does things for me.

Are you communicating less than you used to?

Yes, definitely less.

Maybe a little less than we used to.

No, there’s been no change in the amount we speak.

Why do you think he could be pulling away?

I don’t know. From my perspective, everything has been going great!

He’s been acting weird lately. But I can’t put my finger on what’s gone wrong.

He seems unhappy when he’s around me.

I have no idea. That’s why I’m taking this quiz!

Is he evasive about where is or who he is with?

No, not really.

Yes, he seems to be hiding something.

How long does he go without contacting you?

He can go weeks without getting in touch.

A day or two.

We speak every day.

Does he seem less interested in your life?

Yes, he’s showing little or no interest in me now.

Maybe a little less interested.

No, he’s still interested in me and what I’m doing.

What’s your gut instinct?

We’re meant to be together (and he knows that too)

I don’t know. I’m confused!

He’s definitely pulled away.

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